Navigating Loss: Exploring The College Students’ Experiences of Coping with The Death of a Parent
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https://doi.org/10.59698/kognisi.v2i1.184Keywords:
parental death, experiences, college students, challenges, coping strategiesAbstract
This study delves into the experiences of grief and coping mechanisms among college students struggling with parental absence. This study utilized a case study design involving ten (10) college students in one of the higher education institutions in Pagadian city. The results highlighted different facets of grief, as articulated by the participants, encompassing sleep disturbances, social disconnection, intense frustration, self-blame and regret, overwhelming grief and sorrow, and trauma. In addition, the results also revealed that the participants experienced challenges, which included emotional distress, increased responsibilities, financial distress, and spiritual and existential struggles. To navigate these challenges, the participants turned to seeking support, and embraced acceptance as coping mechanisms. This study underscores the transformative nature of coping with parental absence and emphasizes the significance of support and resilience for college students' well-being.
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